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      • Who I work with
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      • School Refusal
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      • Grief|Loss
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(908)605-6036

(908)605-6036

  • Home
  • Approach
  • Meet the Therapist
  • Clinical Specialties
    • Who I work with
    • What I Treat
    • Anxiety
    • Depression
    • Trauma
    • Relationships
    • School Refusal
    • Self-esteem|Perfectionism
    • Transitions
    • Grief|Loss
  • FAQs

TRAUMA

Trauma can make you feel on edge, easily startled, or constantly braced for something bad to happen. You might also feel numb, disconnected, or detached — like you’re watching your life from the outside. Sleep and concentration often suffer. Your body might feel heavy or tense, and your energy levels may fluctuate between restlessness and exhaustion.


Healing from trauma means helping both the mind and body relearn what safety feels like. My approach blends evidence-based CBT with gentle holistic practices that regulate the nervous system and help you reconnect with yourself at a pace that feels grounded and supportive.

Understanding Trauma Through a Cognitive Behavioral Lens

Understanding Trauma Through a Cognitive Behavioral Lens

Understanding Trauma Through a Cognitive Behavioral Lens

Trauma can shift how you think, feel, and interpret the world. When something overwhelming happens, the brain may start associating certain memories or sensations with danger, even long after you’re safe. The protective part of your mind becomes overly reactive while the calmer, logical part struggles to step in — creating a trauma response cycle where emotional and physical reactions reinforce each other:


  • A reminder or sensation triggers a surge of fear or tension.
  • Your body reacts with hypervigilance, overwhelm, or shutdown.
  • You may avoid certain places, feelings, or memories to protect yourself.
  • The temporary relief reinforces the sense of danger, keeping trauma “alive.”


This cycle can lead to intrusive memories, self-blame, numbness, or feeling unsafe. CBT helps you understand these as survival responses and gently shift them. Gradual exposure allows your system to relearn: “I can handle this. I am safe now.”

Understanding Trauma Through a Holistic Lens

Understanding Trauma Through a Cognitive Behavioral Lens

Understanding Trauma Through a Cognitive Behavioral Lens

The body often carries trauma just as deeply as the mind does. Stressful experiences can keep you stuck in survival mode, leading to tension, numbness, or disconnection. From a holistic perspective, shifts in breath, digestion, and energy reveal how safe or unsafe your body feels — creating a mind–body cycle where emotional and physical reactions reinforce each other:


  • The body senses danger and moves into fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown.
  • You may feel detached from yourself or your surroundings as a protective response.
  • Physical symptoms like tension, heaviness, restlessness, or numbness become familiar.
  • The body stays “on alert,” making it hard to feel calm, grounded, or present.
     

Over time, this can leave you feeling overwhelmed. Holistic practices like grounding, breathwork, somatic awareness, and gentle movement help your body relearn calm and move out of survival mode so you can feel more present and connected.

Healing From Trauma Through an Integrative Mind–Body Approach

In therapy, we’ll work together to gently retrain both your mind and body after trauma by:


  • Understanding how trauma shaped your thoughts, beliefs, and survival responses
  • Noticing how your body reacts through fight, flight, freeze, or shutdown — even when you’re safe
  • Using grounding, breathwork, and somatic practices to help your nervous system settle
  • Learning to safely revisit memories, emotions, or situations (at your pace) using gradual, exposure-based CBT
  • Rebuilding a sense of inner safety, connection, and trust in yourself
     

The goal isn’t to erase what happened — but to help your mind and body learn that the danger has passed, so trauma no longer dictates how you think, feel, or move through the world. With support and practice, you can begin to feel calmer in your body, clearer in your mind, and more grounded and connected within yourself again.

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Holistic CBT Therapy

Melissa@holisticcbt.com (908)605-6036 Ridgewood, NJ

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