Trauma can make you feel on edge, easily startled, or constantly braced for something bad to happen. You might also feel numb, disconnected, or detached — like you’re watching your life from the outside. Sleep and concentration often suffer. Your body might feel heavy or tense, and your energy levels may fluctuate between restlessness and exhaustion.
Healing from trauma means helping both the mind and body relearn what safety feels like. My approach blends evidence-based CBT with gentle holistic practices that regulate the nervous system and help you reconnect with yourself at a pace that feels grounded and supportive.


Trauma can shift how you think, feel, and interpret the world. When something overwhelming happens, the brain may start associating certain memories or sensations with danger, even long after you’re safe. The protective part of your mind becomes overly reactive while the calmer, logical part struggles to step in — creating a trauma response cycle where emotional and physical reactions reinforce each other:
This cycle can lead to intrusive memories, self-blame, numbness, or feeling unsafe. CBT helps you understand these as survival responses and gently shift them. Gradual exposure allows your system to relearn: “I can handle this. I am safe now.”

The body often carries trauma just as deeply as the mind does. Stressful experiences can keep you stuck in survival mode, leading to tension, numbness, or disconnection. From a holistic perspective, shifts in breath, digestion, and energy reveal how safe or unsafe your body feels — creating a mind–body cycle where emotional and physical reactions reinforce each other:
Over time, this can leave you feeling overwhelmed. Holistic practices like grounding, breathwork, somatic awareness, and gentle movement help your body relearn calm and move out of survival mode so you can feel more present and connected.
In therapy, we’ll work together to gently retrain both your mind and body after trauma by:
The goal isn’t to erase what happened — but to help your mind and body learn that the danger has passed, so trauma no longer dictates how you think, feel, or move through the world. With support and practice, you can begin to feel calmer in your body, clearer in your mind, and more grounded and connected within yourself again.
Reach out to schedule your free 15-minute consultation.
Melissa@holisticcbt.com (908)605-6036 Ridgewood, NJ
We use cookies to analyze website traffic and optimize your website experience. By accepting our use of cookies, your data will be aggregated with all other user data.